This week was just not it.

So, our friendgroup of 7 girls was asked by a friendgroup of 6 boys if we wanted to have dates at our Christmas school dance. And yeah, that meant one people wouldn’t we asked. The next day, I saw on my friends phone that my friends made a groupchat with the boys. Not including me. And you can guess it correctly, I wasn’t asked to prom.

Then there were a lot of things that made me insecure. Like my friend asking me if she could straighten my hair because it was really frizzy. Or asking me if she could epilate my eyebrows. It really made me insecure. I asked myself: am I not pretty enough?. I felt really down.

This weekend we had a really hard game against number 2 (we are number 5). Originally, our game would be canceled because they had too few people. Then they called our coach saying they had 3 new people who could play. So they would be with 7. We also were with 7. But when we showed up, they had 10 players. We felt a little betrayed. We started the game pretty good but we were really distracted. The refs were only calling fouls on us, the floor was really slippery and the audience was really annoying. Of course we can’t change those thing and we should focus on ourself.

I can’t let those moments ruin my life. So I try to stay positive and remember it will be better next week.

How do you deal with a hard week? Do you have a Christmas school dance?

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